There is an assumption that is widely accepted that says that men are not really as inclined to want to make a commitment as women are. While that may be true to some extent, there are plenty of men out there who are ready and willing to make a commitment to a woman. In fact, there are many guys that hope that they can find a woman that they can settle down with. However, if you are going to make a man feel like he does want to commit to you, then you have to know how to kind of “push” him to that desire.
It’s actually kind of easy to get a man to want to make that relationship commitment that you want to, as long as you understand what makes him feel that way. If you try and go about it any other way, you may not like the end result. Of course, you also have to be able to attract the right guy as well. And lastly, you have to know why it is that some men seem to resist the idea of taking that step.
Below are some tips that I think you will find make it much easier to get a man to commit to you:
1. Forcing a man to make a commitment is a good way to lose him.
This is like asking for instant resistance to the idea of you and him taking that next step. The moment you make a guy feel like he is being tied down without it being really his choice, that is the moment that you are going to lose him. This is true even for the kind of guy who is hoping to find a woman that he can take things to that level with. You should not try and force the issue.
2. If you can give him his space when he needs it, you can make him feel like you are the one he wants to take that next step with.
A man is always going to want to feel as though he has his own space, a place where he can go to when he just wants to be alone. When he feels like you are invading that space, he is more than likely going to shut you out. Now, when you can show him that you are not the kind of woman that is going to make him feel suffocated, that is when you can be sure that you are getting that much closer to making him want to commit to you.
3. Try to find a way to be able to keep his attention when you are talking to him.
Here is a little cold, hard truth. When you talk about things that he could care less about, he is going to tune you out. And if you do that too much, and he imagines that taking that next step with you means that he is going to have to deal with that all of the time… he is probably going to have some doubts about the whole commitment thing. On the other hand, if you can hook him and keep his attention when you talk to him, that can go a long way to making him want to stay with you.
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