There is a guy who seems to be showing you lots of interest right now and you know for a fact that he wants to get with you. There’s only one problem here. Little did you know it at first, but now you are aware of the fact that he has a girlfriend. Yes, he is chasing after you, but there is another woman in his life. What should you do when you are being pursued by a player, a guy who already has a girlfriend but wants YOU?
Well, as far as the moral and judgment call goes, that’s on you. It may be flattering to know that even though he already has a girlfriend, he thinks highly enough of you that he wants to pursue you, but is that really the way that you want to land a man?
Only you can decide on that one. There are some things that you may want to think about though if you are being pursued by a guy who already has a girlfriend. After all, you don’t want to end up getting caught up in something that you are not ready for, do you?
Here are some things to think about if you are being chased by a guy who has a girlfriend:
1. You should realize that he’s probably showing his true colors.
One thing you do know for sure, having a girlfriend does not stop him from looking at other women. Actually, you know more than that. Not only does it not stop him from looking, it does not stop him from taking action, either. A lot of women seem to miss the obvious in this kind of situation and that is… if you do get into a relationship with him, you can’t be surprised when you find out that he’s not just with you.
2. His relationship may be about to end.
Now, I don’t want to take just one look at this situation. There is a chance that he is in a relationship that is fading, it’s about to end so he sees no reason to hold back his interest in you. If that is the case, then you may want to think about it a little more. There’s nothing wrong though in waiting and seeing if he is really going to end things with his girlfriend.
3. You can always be straightforward with him.
Don’t think that there is anything wrong with you being cold when you shoot him down and let him know that you are not going to do anything with him if that is what you choose. After all, it’s your life and if you don’t want to end up in some saga or some drama that you don’t have to be involved in, who could blame for that?
So, is there a real answer to what you should do if you are being pursued by a guy who already has a girlfriend? That all depends on what you want out of a relationship and if you want to be involved in that kind of situation.
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