What does a woman do if she finds herself attracting the wrong types of guys again and again? This is not an uncommon phenomenon. Many women seem to find themselves repeating the same mistakes again and again. They keep on attracting the same jerks, the same liars, and the same players again and again. If any of this sounds familiar, I want you to know that you are not alone.
I also want you to know that you can do something about it. You don’t have to feel powerless, as if no matter what you will always attract the wrong guys into your life. Things can change as long as you are willing to let them.
That’s a powerful and vital piece of the puzzle.
You have to be willing to let things change.
You are not going to just stop attracting the wrong types of guys if you keep on approaching dating or your relationships in the same manner. It’s kind of along the same lines as trying to break any bad habit. In order to let that habit go, you have to put in the effort to get a new habit, a more empowering one.
How do you do that?
Primarily, you want to admit to yourself that part of the problem is you. It’s you who chooses the same guys over and over, and it is you who ends up thinking that this time things will be different. The very first thing that needs to change is YOU.
Most women who attract the wrong types of guys are either
a) Stuck in a pattern that they feel they cannot get out of
b) Feeling like they don’t really deserve better
c) Willing to put up with way too much for way too little.
Chances are, if you are ending up with the wrong guys time and time again, one of the three choices above is true. And for many women, more than one of the above is true.
All patterns can be broken. Everyone deserves to find happiness and love. You don’t have to put up with too many problems just for a little bit of good in your life.
The next step that you need to take is to get a much more comprehensive understanding of what men really want, how they really think, and what games they may be up to. The easiest way to not end up with the wrong guy, is to be able to recognize him as being wrong from the beginning, so that you don’t end up feeling attached or conflicted down the road.
There really ARE a lot of “good guys” out there. The problem is, if you are looking in all of the wrong places, you will never find them.
Not only that… you will end up being around so many of the bad ones, that you kind of expect them to all be like that.
